Freedom to Marry E-Update

| Issue #31 | February 14, 2007 |

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A Note from Evan Wolfson

Dear friends —

The Freedom to Marry office is filled with glowing smiles, pure elation, and sighs of relief as our biggest week of the year, Freedom to Marry Week, has been a stunning success thus far.  Throughout the country, people are seizing this opportunity to engage the public in the conversation about the need for marriage equality. 

On Monday, Freedom to Marry Day, our staff hosted an extraordinary event celebrating both the 10th anniversary of Freedom to Marry Day and my 50th birthday.  I was very honored by the hundreds of supporters, friends, and family who attended, and was deeply inspired by those who offered their words of reminiscence and encouragement. Thank you to Governor Eliot Spitzer for his letter, City Council Speaker Christine Quinn for sending a City Council Proclamation, a letter from Senator Russ Feingold, and both Rabbi Sharon Kleinbaum and Lambda Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart offering moving speeches about the history of the fight for marriage equality. 

As I reach you on Valentine’s day, a day we celebrate love, I feel overwhelmingly surrounded by love and support especially following such an exceptional event. I look forward to the day when we can all have the choice to show our love and commitment through marriage.

-Evan Wolfson

CLICK HERE to read Evan's full Freedom to Marry Day remarks where he discusses the important achievements from Freedom to Marry Day in 1997 through to today.

Follow developments in the movement for marriage equality on our website, and in future issues of Freedom to Marry's bi-monthly E-Update.

Reports from the Front

Freedom to Marry Week Press Coverage and Events Reach New Heights

County clerk supporting marriage counter 

demonstrations

 

From small towns to big cities, people across the country are waking up to read about Freedom to Marry Week in their newspaper or on their favorite websites. Events are inundating the public from rallies and marriage counter actions to book releases and lobby days, increasing awareness of the inequality in marriage and everyone's need to fight for change.  Congratulations to groups around the country for their successful events.  To view this week’s events, please visit Freedom to Marry Week Events, and to see how widespread the press coverage is, start with these articles:
Mombian: Freedom to Marry Week Blog Carnival
DCist: State of the Same-Sex Union
365Gay: Calif. Clerk's Gay Marriage Protest Spreads
San Francisco Chronicle:  County clerks vow same-sex support
Sacramento Bee: Clerk protests gay marriage ban
The Way Life Should Be: Marriage in Maine
PageOneQ: Marriage battle heats up in Connecticut; Bill extending marriage to be introduced
The Patriot-News: Church promotes rights for gay couples
The Minnesota Daily: The right to marry: who is really at risk?
Press & Sun-Bulletin: Today begins Freedom to Marry Week
The Hartford Courant: A Grandmother Speaks Out In Favor Of Gay Marriage
Blue Oregon: Freedom to Marry Week
Sun Post: The rights stuff
Modesto Bee: Marriage about rights, same sex couples say
The Reporter: I did
Relish Now: Marry Week intended to highlight inequality faced by gays
OutSmart: The marrying men


Evan Wolfson on MSNBC

Evan Wolfson on MSNBC

Evan Wolfson debates the Family Research Council on MSNBC News Live regarding a proposed initiative to bar non-procreative couples from marrying, just like same-sex couples in states that deny them the freedom to marry.

Retired NBA Player Comes Out and Stresses the Importance of Marriage Equality

On Sunday, retired NBA player John Amaechi appeared on ESPN’s show “Outside the Lines,” and announced he is gay.  Amaechi is the first NBA player, retired or active, to come out. Amaechi worked with a broad coalition of our partner organizations (GLAAD, HRC, NBJC) to guide him through the coming out process and he is eager to be involved in the ongoing work toward achieving gay rights, including marriage equality. In his newly released autobiography, "Man in the Middle," Amaechi directly addresses the struggle for marriage equality: "Political conservatives tend to define gay people as 'immoral,' 'perverted,' and 'promiscuous,' yet they deny them the one institution that to them represents the opposite. It's a handy catch-22 with which to bind a whole group of people to second-class citizenship."

Panel on Marriage Equality Educates Public

Kiyana at Maranatha

On Sunday, February 11th, Freedom to Marry Week kicked off in New York City with a panel on marriage equality hosted by Maranatha Riversiders for LGBT Concerns at the historic Riverside Church. The event was a huge success with standing-room-only attendance. Freedom to Marry's very own Reverend Kiyana Horton sat on the panel along with partners from NY's Pride Agenda, Lambda Legal, and others.

The Latest News

For the latest news, opinions, and polls, including these articles, check out our website.

Seattle Post-Intelligencer
February 12, 2007
Mild-mannered, bespectacled and balding Seattle computer programmer Gregory Gadow seems more Sancho Panza than Don Quixote. Still, he's fearless in defense of his satirically titled Washington Defense of Marriage Alliance and it's ballot Initiative 957. The organization (actually more like a gaggle) gets its name from the pompously titled federal Defense of Marriage Act and its state-level Washington namesake. As if the marriages of us heterosexuals actually needed a kind of Department of Defense to protect us from the gay barbarians at our gates.

Mombian
February 11, 2007
It's the first day of Freedom to Marry Week, and I'm taking the suggestion of Kelly at O for Obsessive and posting something each day about marriage equality.

BLOG: Don’t forget marriage in 2008
DavidMixner.com
February 6, 2007
Like other great civil rights campaigns, this fight will require fortitude. We won’t win this one without some nasty fights, anxiety that we may lose friends and even wholesale set backs. In the 1960s, as the battle against racial inequality raged, many state and local governments passed oppressive laws to stop justice from winning out. Even California passed an initiative rolling back fair housing legislation. This push back should be expected in a time of great social and legal change.


Freedom to Marry Day Event a Success!

Thank you to everyone who made our February 12th fundraising event celebrating the 10th Anniversary of Freedom to Marry Day and Evan's 50th birthday a success! If you would still like to contribute, even if you missed the event, please do!


Event-goers mingling


Evan and family celebrate


Communications team prepares to party

To learn even more about the event, check out Immigration Equality founder Lavi Soloway's blogpost which has more pictures and an excellent event description.


Photo & Video Contest for Freedom to Marry Week!

Freedom to Marry Week poster


Is there a Freedom to Marry Week poster in your community?  Did you have a great turnout for your Freedom to Marry Week event?  Whatever captures your eye and the spirit of Freedom to Marry Week, record it and sent it to us.  The winner will receive $500 to donate to the local 501(c)(3) marriage equality organization of their choice.  For deadlines and more specifics, go online to Freedom to Marry Week 2007 Video & Photo Contest.

Most visited pages last week:

Freedom to Marry Week 2007
About Us: Megan Kinninger
Freedom to Marry Week 2007 Events

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Why Marriage Matters

“The reality, however, is that marriage equality is one of the great civil rights struggles of our time… Like other great civil rights campaigns, this fight will require fortitude.”

—David Mixner, author, political strategist, civil rights activist and public affairs advisor

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