Freedom To Marry

The gay and non-gay partnership working to win marriage equality nationwide

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North Carolina

For many years now, the North Carolina state legislature has stopped family opponents from trying to write marriage discrimination into the state constitution. State advocacy groups and citizens across North Carolina continue to work towards ending the exclusion of same-sex couples from marriage.

WHERE YOU CAN GO TO GET INVOLVED OR LEARN MORE:

Equality North Carolina
Equality North Carolina is a statewide advocacy organization that works to secure equal rights and justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender North Carolinians.

Pam's House Blend
The Blend was launched in July 2004 by North Carolina resident Pam Spaulding to discuss, "the state of issues that affect my life as an out lesbian — the right not to lose my job because I am gay, the right to marry." The Blend was honored as "Best LGBT Blog" in the 2005 and 2006 Weblog Awards.

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LEGISLATIVE STATUS IN NORTH CAROLINA:

Your Community—North Carolina
Human Rights Campaign (HRC)
HRC presents resources, news, and the current marriage and relationship recognition laws in each state.

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PUBLICATIONS:

Geographic Trends Among Same-Sex Couples in the U.S. Census and the American Community Survey
Williams Institute
November 2007

Gary Gates at the Williams Institute released groundbreaking research on the geographic trends among same-sex couples. The report finds the biggest increases in Southern and Mountain states and states barring legal acceptance of same-sex couples had larger percentage increases in same-sex couples from 2000 to 2006.

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NEWS:

BLOG: NC: same-sex partners granted hospital visitation
Pam's House Blend
April 23, 2008

Some good news on the civil rights front...NC ensures gay hospital visitation rights.

BLOG: NC pastor asks why religion is being used to deny marriage to gays and lesbians
Pam's House Blend
July 17, 2007

Rev. Reggie Longcrier, pastor of Exodus Missionary Outreach Church in Hickory, NC, submitted a question on marriage equality for the CNN's YouTube Presidential debate. It's a powerful, short and simple video.

OPINION: The constitution is not the place to make law
The News and Observer
March 9, 2007

Putting gay and lesbian couples' relationships in the political arena scarcely helps anyone. It gives grandstanding pols a chance to show off, but it's hard to argue that a little tolerance of differing views on the issue threatens the American family structure. It's even harder to make a case for an unnecessary constitutional amendment.

Week intended to highlight inequality faced by gays
RelishNow
February 8, 2007

Freedom to Marry Week was established 10 years ago. Each February, we remind our fellow citizens of the fundamental unfairness of marriage inequality and try to win their support. We hope to reach the "reachables" — straight folks who allow themselves to be educated and can ignore religious and social prejudices — by telling our stories. This is mine:

Domestic partner benefits delayed by legal confusion
Yes Weekly
October 12, 2005

In Greensboro, NC officials must wait for guidance from the state attorney general to sort through conflicting legal opinions before moving forward with a proposal to extend domestic partner benefits to city employers.

Anti-gay measure blocked in North Carolina
365Gay.com
September 2, 2005

For the second year in a row, the North Carolina legislature rejected a proposed constitutional amendment attacking same-sex couples. "This is a huge victory for LGBT North Carolinians," said Equality North Carolina spokesperson Ian Palmquist, "but our work is far from over."

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Equality North Carolina News


Why Marriage Matters

Why Marriage Matters America, Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry.
By Evan Wolfson

Read reviews! Purchase the book or receive a signed copy as a thank you for your donation!


Sharing Our Stories

Read families’ stories about how marriage discrimination affects everyday life. These stories communicate, in concrete ways, how the exclusion of same-sex couples from marriage hurts families and helps no one.

The Marriage Basics

Start in The Marriage Basics to get short answers to your big questions about the freedom to marry, and learn more about the protections and responsibilities of marriage, the historical background for this civil rights movement, why separate is not equal, and so much more.